What are they thinking? (Reflections From An Expecting Mom)

What are they thinking??? Over the last 6 months or so, I’ve asked myself this question countless times.

And even though I am now able to laugh it off and not worry about it as much, I am not ashamed to admit that some people’s comments and questions about my pregnancy, my growing belly and my baby have sent me to tears.

Sure, the crazy hormones don’t help the situation. Add to that an expanding waist size and countless insecurities that come with your first pregnancy, and you have a recipe for an emotional breakdown.

Or maybe it was just me?

Let me explain:

I love being pregnant. I feel fortunate that I’ve had a relatively easy first 6 months and no complications.

I’ve enjoyed seeing my belly grow.

I’ve loved feeling the baby move more and more each day.

And most importantly, I know that my baby and I are healthy.

But still, comments like these hurt:

“Are you sure there aren’t twins in there?”

“Wow! Your belly has dropped. Aren’t you about due?” (Did I mention I have 3 months left?)

One lady even took the time to look me up and down, ask if I was expecting, and when I answered “yes,” she pointed at my belly and said: “I was starting to wonder…”

What are these people thinking?! (The worst part for me was that all of these comments came from women who have children already.)

I just couldn’t understand it. And I still don’t really.

Sure my tummy is big. I’m growing a human after all! 🙂

Everyone carries babies differently. I have friends who carried “high”, and some who you could barely tell had a baby bump at all.

My own bump has made me realize just how sensitive the topic can be for expecting moms, especially first timers, like me.

Maybe it’s because the hormones have calmed down. Or maybe it’s because I’m finally not caring as much about what other people say, but lately I’ve been able to laugh off comments like this. I know part of it is also because I am getting so excited to meet this little guy or girl – that is all I have been able to think about.

I have decided to focus my energy on being proud of my body for creating something so amazing and on enjoying every second of it, knowing it won’t last that much longer.

What are some crazy things strangers (or even friends and family) have said to you while pregnant that nearly sent you over the edge? How did you deal with it? I would love to hear your stories.

Till next time!

Ina

Guest Blogger: Ina Fitzgerald

I’m Ina Fitzgerald and I love having a creative outlet – whether that is making jewelry, writing a blog post, or day dreaming about my next craft project, I find peace in pretty things, kind words and any excuse to incorporate pink into my daily life. I’m married to my best friend, Zach, and we’re thrilled to be expecting our first bundle of joy this September! When I’m not working my day job, I run my own business, IF Only Pretty – a handmade jewelry company I started last year. I love designing new pieces, creating custom work for clients and taking part in jewelry shows. I also stay busy with my blog: Heartland Charm – a place all my own to share some pretty things, a few kind words and a touch of pink every once in a while.