“I can really tell you made an impact on your community.”
That’s what my daughter heard from a judge at her first county fair after she talked about her very first 4-H project. She returned to me beaming and with a full report of her interaction with that judge. In the next few weeks, I witnessed her confidently retell this story to family and friends. Her library project ended up with a blue ribbon and a special “Best of Class” gold distinction award.
This moment all started this time last year when we joined a local 4-H club. We are part of the Johnston Forevergreens 4-H club where, starting in fourth grade, children will attend meetings, participate in community projects and can even submit their own projects to their county fair. It’s a vibrant, community-focused program that can be a bright star in a child’s development – and something the entire family can thrive and grow.
Why Do 4-H?
4-H is all about “Head, Heart, Hands, and Health”—a framework that encourages kids to develop a range of skills. The program provides various projects and activities that cater to diverse interests. From livestock and gardening to robotics and photography, there’s a project for every passion. Meanwhile, so much of 4-H encompasses skill development including leadership, practical skills, public speaking, community service, ethics and integrity, friendships, mentorship, and values and citizenship.
I was in 4-H as a child and still remember the impact my projects had on my community. I use the skills I learned writing my projects today as a marketing professional. The club is a way for my child to take the fundamentals she is learning at home or in school and apply them to real-world experiences.
Step one: Set up a club visit
One of the best ways to introduce your child to 4-H is by visiting a local club meeting. Many clubs are open to new members and often welcome families to attend a meeting to see what it’s all about. This can help your child get a feel for the club’s environment and meet potential new friends.
Start by contacting the Iowa State University Extension and Outreach office, where you can learn about clubs in your area and upcoming events. You can also start by filling out this form at the national 4H website.
Many clubs welcome new members year-round, so you can join at any time. Des Moines offers a vibrant 4-H community with numerous clubs and events throughout the year. Whether your child is interested in coding, raising chickens, or volunteering at local shelters, there’s a club for them.
Step two: Provide support
4-H is designed to be flexible and cater to a wide range of interests. If your child is passionate about something specific, encourage them to explore it through 4-H. Whether it’s animal husbandry, environmental science, or creative arts, 4-H projects are a fantastic way for them to dive deeper into their interests and develop new skills. Supporting their passion can lead to incredible personal growth and fulfillment.
Your involvement can make a difference in your child’s 4-H experience. Attend meetings, help with projects, and engage in the activities. Not only does this show your support, but it also allows you to be part of the learning process. Plus, many clubs have volunteer opportunities for parents, which can be a great way to get involved in the community and make new connections.
I was concerned about being too involved in my child’s projects, but our leader reminded me that we are stronger together. Isn’t that what community is all about anyway? Our family planted a milkweed garden to attract butterflies, so I encouraged my child to turn it into a project. What’s great is a project from this year can maximize into a project for the next year. Last year, we planted our garden and this year we are enhancing that project by tagging monarchs.
Step three: Celebrate achievements and HAVE FUN!
Participating in county and state fairs is often a highlight of the 4-H experience, showcasing your child’s accomplishments to a broader audience. Every accomplishment, big or small, deserves to be celebrated. Whether it’s completing a project, winning a ribbon, or mastering a new skill, take the time to recognize and celebrate these milestones. Positive reinforcement will boost their confidence and motivation, encouraging them to continue exploring and learning.
Finally, remember it is meant to be enjoyable and fulfilling for your child AND for YOU. Encourage your child to have fun, be curious, and enjoy the process of learning and growing. The experiences and friendships they gain can be incredibly rewarding and impactful.
